something i ponder.

someone said to me this weekend that they were talking with a friend about being "high maintenance".

the response was this: "i never want to apologize for being high maintenance... i only want someone to love me for every aspect of my personality - not in spite of it."

the friend said that it was possible. that her boyfriend of three years had simply grown to love her for what she consisted of inside, rather than in spite of the things that made her, what others may find, a pain in the ass. if that makes sense.

"so i guess it's possible," she said.